The girls are doing grand, and have put on 3/4 lb each in the last 4 weeks - they are up to 1 lb 12 oz each now! We saw Call yawning, and lo and behold, the girls are in the same spots they were in just before Christmas - Beck head down and facing my right side although her body is on my left, and Call still sprawled across the top, face down with head on the left. I am actually starting to believe that the girls might actually stay in there until they can come out without too many problems - good thing too, since I hear that NICU bills for twins can run into the hundreds of thousands of dollars (I shiver to think what we'd do without good insurance!)
And, hold on to your hats ladies, I actually did something CREATIVE yesterday - not just rote sewing, or slopping paint around, but planned and executed ART. I love mosaics, and am playing around with mosaic quilts. Yes, I know the cat one that won so many prizes a few years back, but I mean the WHOLE THING, not just the subject, but the background too, and I'm thinking of how to use variable backings as different 'grouts' as well. The subject of my current piece (still being worked out in construction paper) is the communication between my girls in utero. I hope to work on it more soon (although it really is tedious), and will post pics when I do.
In other crappy news, my dear mother-fiugre of 28 years, Barbara Ann Powell Good, has had a turn for the worse, and is officially dying of pancreatic cancer. Hospice starts tomorrow, and they think she has 2-3 weeks. Kevin and I weren't going to go down again until after the babies are here, but now we have two trips to take - one to say goodbye, and another for her funeral, when it comes. I would have liked to have had a peaceful last trimester, but more important now is that she has peace around the idea of and during her actual passing. If any of you are the praying/meditating/sending thoughts out to the universe types, I would have enormously more peace in MY life if I knew that you were thinking of her having more peace as she ends hers. So, if your thoughts might wend that way, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I'm so sorry about your friend, Susan. You are ALL in my thoughts and prayers as you live through this end.
ReplyDeleteOh Susan. I am so sorry. Barbara will have peace, and freedom from pain, when she goes. You will be left to deal with the pain of losing her presence. So, you need to take care of YOU (and the twins). Going to see Barbara NOW is important but the funeral is not. Don't forget- she won't be there. Yes, closure is important but, trust me here (old Hospice nurse) you can get closure without attending. Maybe having a Celebration of Life for Barbara after the twins arrive would work. We never actually had a funeral for my best friend's mom, just the celebration and, later, an intermentfor just immediate family and *nearly family* (like me).
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I'm so sorry. I'll keep you and Mrs. Good in my prayers.
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